6 Powerful Steps to Increase Your Self-Confidence In Marriage
Every woman from time to time has asked herself some serious questions. I asked myself tones of time if my attitude was wrong and therefore the outcome was the same? Maybe I should approach it differently? How should I make myself look self-confident when it’s needed?
I’ve discovered these 6 powerful steps to increase your self-confidence in marriage. It changed my life forever. I’ve shared with my friend and each of them was amazed by little changes that were visible the very next morning!
Building your self-confidence will help your personal growth
and help you understand you marriage better!
Lets go from the beginning shall we? Lets go through 6 Powerful Steps to Increase Your Self-Confidence In Marriage.
There were tones of situation when you were under huge stress, being so afraid what will happen. Well, that’s exactly where my first powerful advice comes from!
- Ask yourself, “What Would Be The Worst Outcome?
You have put on yourself too many irrational issues. You’ve build something that Mary and me call “Worrying ahead syndrome”. Huge amount of energy is lost in minutes while making potential scenarios. Scenarios that most probably won’t come truth! Invest your energy wisely. Get rational. Don’t waste your time on WORRYING. Focus on your goal. Grab them! Worrying will only distract you!
- Decrease the Volume of The Devil Inside You
Many thoughts are coming through your head, I know. I understand completely. Just imagine a volume control and lower the volume. Or even more simply. Change the internal voice to some funny cartoon! Do you think you could take Goofy or Donald Duck seriously if they were criticizing you?
If you hear a funny voice, you laugh and maybe hear the irony of your negative internal critic and continue onward.
- Confuse The Virgin Inside You
If you are in something for the first time, you’ll be more nervous about it. Try to imagine only one thing. Imagine that you have already done it! Take a short journey. Imagine very vividly how does this success look like. How does it taste. Andd finally how do you feel when you reach it!
Trick your mind. Make your dream real! This will bring you closer as you have experienced it already! The mind does NOT know the difference between something VIVIDLY imagined and something real. Enjoy the ride!
- Learn From Someone Else’s Mistakes
Who says that you have to do everything alone and by yourself? Look around you! There are people who had your problem before. There are also many people who have overcame the same problem! Be sure about this!
Observe their behaviors, attitudes, values, and beliefs. Talk with them if you have access to them. If you don’t have access to, get as much exposure to them as you can. Talk to people who know the person. Surprise yourself with this fast approach that definitely works!
- Play a Secret Game
- Don’t Ever Regret For Not Trying
This is maybe the most important of 6 powerful steps to increase your self-confidence in marriage. There is one very simple and so truth fact. You will definitely lose out on 100% of the opportunities that you never go for.
Nothing ventured—Nothing gained. To get what you want, ask for it. If you consistently ask people for what you want, you’ have far more chances of get it.