Seducing your man should be easier then it seems. Even though your sex life is not as exciting as it used to be, now that you got to know each other well, it should be easy for you to guess what turns him on. But, if you have run out of ideas, here are 5 things that work on every man.

1. Impress him

 Try and triple-impress your husband: at sofa, a kitchen table and bed. While you are watching a movie or entertaining gussets in your living room, impress him with your witty, clever remark. Surprise him with a homemade exotic dish (don’t forget to add some aphrodisiacs like honey, spices, and walnuts) and when it comes to bedroom… Hmm, give rein to your imagination.

2. Be flirtatious

 Remember how it used to be when you were single? You knew just how to draw a men’s attention; significant looks, slightly puckered lips, seductive voice were your weapons. It is understandable that now you don’t use these techniques to draw your husband’s attention but if you occasionally flirt the same way you did when you’ve just met, it will show him that you’re still trying to seduce him and will bring back happy memories.

3. Send a sexy text message

Again something you’ve probably did often when you were dating. Can you remember when was the last lime you’ve called or text your husband for other purpose then asking if he would pick up the children from school or buy groceries on his way from work? Probably not. If you plan a romantic evening, send him a sexy email or text massage, somewhere around a lunch brake. Believe us; he will spend a whole afternoon thinking about it.

4. Share a fantasy

Have you always craved to be seduced by a mysterious stranger? Why don’t you share your fantasy with your husband and ask him to fulfil it. Likewise, if he is into uniforms, get one and surprise him by wearing it when he gets home. He won’t be able to say no!

5. Dress up

Sexy lingerie, a garter, high heels! Yea, I agree, it is a cliché, but you can never go wrong with these.  Men are visual beings and seeing woman they love looking like a sex bomb, is like giving a candy to a child. He will get even more excited if you usually wear plain t-shirts and casual wardrobe around the house. Knowing that you’ve dress up just for him is flattering and irresistible.

 If you are still wondering how to seduce your husband, we recommend reading the article How to attract your husband. By following the suggestions from both articles you will not only become an object of your husband’s desire but you will also improve your marriage.

By Susan Watson

We were all taught that we HAVE to find every possible way to keep our husbands happy. Yet, some of those advice you’ve heard mean that you need to submit to your husband’s needs and forget about your own. Well– not a chance! You are a human being! You deserve love and respect too. Don’t worry! There are 7 ways to keep your husband happy and to still be yourself. Check them out.

1.  Support Him

Women are not the only ones that need support. Men also like when there’s someone to support them Support your husband in everything he does. Even if you think that is the stupidest thing in the world.

Don’t ever make fun of something that matters to your husband. If you don’t show support in the first place, nothing you do later will matter. He will always remember that you weren’t supportive when he needed it. He will resent you for that for a long time.

     2. Love and Respect Him

Love and respect. Without those two, basically NOTHING else matters. This of course doesn’t mean that you should treat your husband as a higher being. Simply, show him that you love him and have respect for what he does and for his time as well.

Show respect for your husband’s job as well as for his hopes and dreams. Don’t undermine him, even if it’s out of a joke, because you may really hurt him. Give love and respect. And expect the same in return.

3. Stop Nagging

No husband likes a wife that nags constantly. In fact, nagging will get you nowhere! It only leads to a fight! Stop nagging!

Although you probably don’t nag for no reason, but still, give your best and stop it. Try talking to your husband instead of nagging. If he is doing something that upsets you tell him! Learn how to argue. Learn how to trade something you want for something he wants.

4. Give Him Some Time For Himself

Everybody needs some time for themselves every once in a while. No matter if he just want a couple of hours to watch a game, or a golf weekend every once in a while. Don’t deny him that. He can help you clean the house once the game is over. You can arrange a weekend getaway the next weekend. Use the time your husband wants for himself to see some old friends or to do something you like.

5. Come Up With a Common Activity

You know how they say that a couple that plays together stays together? Find a fun activity to do with your husband.

It doesn’t need to be anything too special or too expensive! Simply establish a routine and stick to it. Remember that it needs to be something you will both enjoy. You can’t really drag your husband antique shopping every Saturday. But, you can for example go to a different amusement park once every month.

6. Have More Sex

Yes, I know, women don’t really like to hear that, but come on. We like sex too! This is the most important of 7 ways to keep your husband happy. So withholding it remember that it’s not only a punishment for them. By the way, if you want to keep your husband, forget about withholding sex, guys really hate that.

This is not only a matter of making your husband happy, it is a matter of building a more intimate relationship between you too. Physical intimacy leads to a greater psychological intimacy. Sex makes your skin glow, it reduces stress and it even keeps your intimate parts healthier. The more you have it the more you’ll want it.

7. Be Your Husband’s Partner

Always remember that marriage is a partnership and that you and your husbands are equal partners. This means that there are no individual matters and problems. They are all your problems that you both need to solve.

Don’t exclude your husband from any decision important for your marriage. Ask his opinion even if you’re absolutely sure that you won’t appreciate it. Your sole intention to hear it will mean a lot to him.

Keep in mind that marriage is a union of two people and the most important word is “together”. As long as you plan and do things together and count on each other, you will have a strong and happy marriage.

Hugs,
Susan

It is not easy to acknowledge a painful truth; most of them feel disappointed, angry, deprived of their self-confidence. Above all, they are scared of losing their husband for good. If you feel like your marriage is going through a rough faze and fear your husband is no longer attracted to you, you should read the article carefully.

Lack of attraction in marriage is a serious thing and it usually reflects other problems not always connected to the relationship between spouses; career turbulence, financial difficulties, illness etc. The old spark will not be lit by simply putting on sexy lingerie, a lot of perfume and leather high heeled boots.  Looking like a sex bomb for one night can surely help, but it won’t fix the problem permanently. It goes with saying that you should take care of your appearance (for your own sake) but to attract your husband again, focus on the following:

Broadcast love

Remember when you first start dating, the sexual appeal was do strong that you couldn’t keep your hands off each other. You were making love all the time in everything you did. Making love doesn’t refer only to sex; holding hands while walking in the park, talking over the dinner, watching a movie, all the little things you did together, were like making love. They were bringing you closer together and made both of you happy. Can you recall the last time you’ve felt like this?

Routine and habits have become a part of your marriage, but try to bring in a little change and things will look better.

Let the habitual, cursory good-night –kiss last a little bit longer, embrace your husband when he isn’t expecting (avoid doing it while the important game is on), stroke his hair while you are passing by. Don’t expect him to do same at first.  Be patient and wait for him to start noticing these changes.

Plan the time for each other

You’ve heard this one before, but the importance of finding the time for each other can’t be overestimated. Work, housekeeping, taking care of children, require almost all your strength. Sometimes you barley find a time to take a decent shower and you wonder how to find time for the two of you.

Plan and prioritize. Pick a day when you can spend the evening together. Forget about doing laundry, cooking, etc. Put the children to bed and devote your self to each other. Turn off the TV, order in or have plain sandwiches and a beer and TALK, TALK, TALK. It is strictly forbidden to talk about your every day’s life, work and children.

For one night in a week, act like you’ve just met; talk about philosophy, comment an interesting book or article you’ve read, discuss the current affair, sports, everything that brought you together in the first place. Make your husband fall in love with you again, be happy, confident, interesting.

Look forward to this evening like you did when you were dating. It is important to make this a regular, weekly event. That will show your husband that he is still on top of your priority list.

 Pay attention

When things go wrong, it is usually because spouses have stop communicating. Both of them complain that the other one is no longer paying attention to them. This is sad but true.

In the beginning you were thrilled while listening to him talking about himself, his feelings, plans, interest. None of them seemed silly.  Now when he starts talking about his high-school band and the one hit they’ve had, you interrupt him and change the subject.  I agree, it is boring to listen to the same story all over again, but be aware that this is his way of drawing your attention.

Once you were proud of him, he was your hero and he needs to see the same admiration so he could allow himself to share his insecurities and show his weakness. Try to take an active part in conversation, show him that you have faith in him and he will turn to you again.

Maybe you are surprised that I didn’t mentioned sex. Don’t be. When things between couples are good, sex comes as a cherry on top. Correspondingly, the absence of it indicates a profound, hidden problem.

To attract your husband and have a passionate marriage again, think about what you’ve just read. Try to bring these changes into your life. You might be surprised how improved your marriage will become.

Hugs,

Susan

by Mary Robinson 

Hello there,

You used to have a good marriage, full of understanding and love. But… lately your husband seems a bit distant. You don’t talk as much as you used to. He keeps himself busy with work and you are a bit worried if he still loves you?

Here are 7 signs that show your husband still has strong feelings for you.

Every marriage or a long relationship goes through a rough time. Ordinary life, kids, problems with money all affect the relationship between the two persons. A little time is found for exchanging love, sweet talk, significant looks, and all those things that used to brought you two together.  If you wonder if your husband still loves you, pay attention to the following sings.

     1. He Tells You He Loves You All The Time

Men are not like us! They don’t easily say that they love you. So, if your husband tells you “I love you” often, be sure that really does. It’s not the mere 3 words. It‘s the look in his eyes, a light smile and expression on his face that fallows them.

     2. He Is Proud Of You

He keeps phrasing you to his family and friends. Not only he thinks of you as a successful business woman, an excellent cook and a caring wife and mother but he wants others to know about your qualities. Yes, he struts like a pigeon because he has managed to win you over. Do you need more proof than that?

     3. He Supports Your Career Goals

Not many men are truly supportive when it comes to their wives career. Maybe they say so but not many of them stay true to their words. Supportive husband will make the dinner and put the kids to bed when you stay late at work. He will take care of the house while you are on a business trip. He patiently waits for you to finish an important project. If your husband is ready to take some of your responsibilities so you could devote yourself to your career more, be sure that he still loves you.

     4. He Takes Care Of Your Needs

This is maybe the most important of 7 signs your husband still loves you. A husband, who loves, encourages his wife to lead a full life, not to limit herself to a wife and mother role only.  If he is ready to watch the children on Friday night so you could go out with your girlfriends or go the gym, be proud of him!

     5. Every Now And Then He Does Something Romantic

It is nice to know that you still inspire your husband to be as romantic as he was when you were courting.  A funny, romantic SMS. Coming home with a piece of cake or a occasional visit to your favorite restaurant are gestures that inevitably show that you have a husband very much in love with you. A man who is trying to find a way to surprise you is surely a man who wants to keep you.

     6. He Is Attentive To Your Friends And Family

Trying to be on good terms with your family or a friend you know he finds annoying is a gesture of a true men in love. He is charming, attentive and funny on seeing them only to make you happy and proud of him.

     7. He Appreciates Your Opinion

No matter how small is a problem he is facing, he always consult you first. He appreciates your opinions. He asks for your advice when making important decisions and listens carefully when you are talking. A husband who loves his wife includes her in every part of his life.

The list of 7 signs your husband still loves you is not completed yet.

You are the one who should extend it!
You know all the ways your husband shows his affection.

Some don’t talk much, but are always there to hold you when times are difficult. Other buy expensive gifts. Or organize exotic weekends. So, if you didn’t recognize your husband among the above written lines, don’t panic! Make a list and share it with your husband. Then he will know that you still love him.

Keep your head up girl,

Mary

by Mary Robinson

Hey,

We’ve already shown you “7 Days Guide To Keep Your Husband” for a happy marriage you absolutely need to follow. Now, it’s time for upgrade! I’m bringing you these 5 helpful tips on how to make your marriage happy. Study them and do the best for your marriage right now!

1. KEEP THE PASSION ALIVE: You always hear how important it is to keep your sex life and the passion alive Over the years you will probably become less interested in sex. Your work that exhausts you, the children that need lunch and help with their homework etc. Turbo mom, slow down!

But, you need to remember that good sex leads to good marriage. This is the most important of all 5 helpful tips on how to make your marriage happy.

So, have sex, whenever you can! Even if you don’t feel like it, once you start exchanging kisses and touches you will probably get turned on and wish for intimacy with your husband.
Don’t always wait for him to initiate sex! Did you know that a lot of man like it when woman initiates.

And try not to do a couple of same things over the years. Try something new every once in a while. You should not be trying some challenging poses from Kama Sutra if you don’t want to hurt yourself. Try leaving the lights on for example, or have sex during the day. Leave the children with their grandparents. Dedicate one weekend for just you two. Escape to a remote village or some other place you might like and make it all about you. Remember how your marriage was in its best years. Trust me! Just a little effort can bring a lot of results and physical intimacy leads to psychological intimacy as well.

2. NEW THINGS AND SURPRISES: I’m not going to lie. You need to work on your marriage! The worst thing is a routine of everyday tasks. We all need a surprise or trying something new once in a while. Take your husband to a place he’s never seen before. It doesn’t need to be a expensive. You can take him to a place in your own city he’s never seen. Do something you’ve talking about doing for years and never actually did it. Go see that place you’ve always talked about or go fly in a hot air balloon. Do something different. Surprise your husband with a romantic dinner or with a present for no reason. You can simply make a card saying “I love you” and send it to your husband’s office. Don’t ever underestimate the power of new sexy panties. Wait for your husband to come home wearing only that. Little things matter! Pay attention to them and you will make your marriage a happy one.

3. LEARN HOW TO ARGUE: All the couples argue, that’s a fact. And it’s perfectly normal. In fact if you never argue there is definitely something wrong with your marriage.

If you want to keep your husband learn how to react in these situations and to learn how to argue.

First, try not to yell at each other. Remember – save your children from hearing you screaming at each other. So, no yelling. Also, no nagging! Instead of it, try to talk about your problems and the reasons you fight. Be calm and deal with one problem at a time.

You should never, under any circumstances bring up something from your past when you’re already arguing about something else.

And you should never bring up his mother! Read our article on how to keep his mother happy, by clicking here. It’s ok to fight, but respect each other.

4. SORRY AND I LOVE YOU: These words can solve most of the problems in your marriage. Don’t be one of those people who can’t apologize! It’s simple and it works! Let me tell you how it goes in my house. Whenever my husband and I argue, it only usually lasts to the point when someone says they’re sorry. After then the other one says “no, I’m sorry” and we start talking about our problems and solving them instead of arguing. Be able to say “I love you”. No matter the fact that you are married for 20 years. It’s never a bad idea to say it. And no, it doesn’t loose its meaning if you repeat it a couple of times a day. It also teaches your children that it’s perfectly ok to love someone and to let them know.

5. TIME FOR YOURSELF: If you want to make your marriage a happy one, it is important to remember yourself too. You can’t always think about your husband and your children. You need some time for yourself every once in a while. It doesn’t matter if you are going to spend a whole weekend at the spa or just a couple of hours out with your girl friends. You need to spend some time away from home. It is perfectly healthy to spend some time away from your husband. Just as well as he should. You need to maintain your relations with other people in order for your marriage to be happy. Sometimes you just need some time away from each other, because there is a world outside of your marriage.

You can’t just sit and wait for the problems to go away, you need to solve them. If you can’t do it yourself you can always seek help from a couple’s counselor, just don’t give up until you try. A lot of problems in your marriage may seem bigger than they actually are. You may be only one talk away from solving them, so don’t ever miss that chance. And even if there are no problems, talking to each other will make your marriage stronger and happier.

Hugs,
Mary

Written by Susan Watson

Hey darling,

Every now and then you probably think about how great it would be for you and you husband to do fun together.

And you’re right, it would be great. It is also not hard to do at all. You just think that there’s a lot of planning to do. You just need to put little effort in and you can have a fantastic fun day. We are bringing you 6 greatest fun things to do with your husband to choose from. Want to hear how to keep your husband happy?

1. FUN OUTSIDE: You can spend a fantastic fun day with your husband somewhere outside, in the nature. You can go for a walk in the woods, or even in a nearby park if there’s nothing else close to your home. You could rent bicycles and ride outside, or you can simply spend a day walking in the nature, or go horseback riding on the beach. Breathe some fresh air in and spend a day together. I guarantee you that it will be fun.

2. PICNIC: Picnic is always a fun and great thing to do with your husband. Make some sandwiches and grab a blanket and head out. You don’t need to go anywhere to far, a park near your home would do just fine. But if you have a chance, of course go somewhere further. You can make your picnic just the way you like it.

Written by Susan Watson

Hey girl,

You might think that this is an article just for unmarried woman. To be brutally honest – it doesn’t matter are you married, unmarried, pregnant, or something else. If you want to know how to get your man in bed there are some universal rules. My husband did marry me, but this doesn’t mean that I should just sit and wait for him to take an initiative. I also need to know some moves on how to get him in bed.

First of all, take away all complicate scenarios out of your head. It’s a man we are talking about, not rocket science. Second, don’t spend time thinking of him. The key on how to get your man in bed is YOU. The attitude is the most important thing. Learn how

Attitude, attitude and attitude, my girl! You won’t get anywhere without it. The same goes with sex. If you just lie in bed or passively wait for a man to do the work… then no wonder nothing happens. Just think who would you prefer. A guy who is crazy over you, trying to seduce you, or a guy bored to death, sitting in the chair and looking at the watch? No matter how good you look, men do LOVE to see a woman with attitude and an initiative. A woman who is not afraid to make a move. A woman who teases him. Who provokes his desire. Be subtle. Be gentle. Be a feminine.

Always look the best you can. Remember, men are all visual. Be simple incredible. Don’t let him take his eyes off you. Do you really want to know how to get your man in bed? Then smell gorges girl! Put some make-up (don’t exaggerate, of course). Be different from tones of women he is seeing at the street. Build your own style, be original, tidy and do your best to look good. Never ever go out of the house with unwashed hair! That’s the biggest NO and I always underline that.

Even if you are married for years, try to bring the best out of yourself. Not just for sake of having a good sex, but for your self confidence as well.

This might come as a shock to you, but it’s truth. If you really want to know how to get your man in bed over and over, you need to know one truth. Good relationship needs more then just good sex. It needs incredible sex that keeps your man hungry for you. There is one thing that all men desire. That’s oral satisfaction.

For a long time I thought that my husband was quite satisfied with our oral sex. Are you sure that you are giving oral pleasure like no one else? Do you think that your man is dreaming about you giving him oral? If you want to know how to get your man in bed happy and satisfied, then oral sex is crucial. Don’t think about it. Do it! After I read this book nothing was like before. Now I am absolutely sure he’ll desire no other woman in his life ))

Hugs,

Susan

Written by Susan Watson

Hey girl,

Does your marriage turn into a boring, predictable routine? Does your sex life fade as the time passes by? Sometimes

your husband and you are like roommates. Are you lack of ideas on how to get your man interested in you?

At the bottom line things are quite simple. Your marriage needs to be spiced or you are close to forget why you have married your husband. If you are in this situation, be sure that he is as well. You need to take an action, or some other woman will. Read these  4 amazing tips on how on how to get your man interested in you.

1. Be Direct

Men are very simple when it comes to sex. When you want something from him, you ask for it. There is nothing more sexier for a husband than to see his wife crazy about him. During foreplay tell him what would you like him to do. Men like to concord. Share your fantasy. Be dirty. Be specific. Seduce him by telling him where would you like his fingers and lips to be. Make your husband interested in pleasing your fantasies.

2. Role Play

The sky is your limit.  Free your creativity. Be something else but husband and wife who share bills, kids and house.  Spice up your sex life with hot imagination with you two as main actors. And remember – there is plenty of roles that you can play… and never get bored.

3.  Seduce Him Like No Other Woman Can

The third and my favorite of 4 amazing tips on how to get your man interested in you. After years of marriage, women sometimes forget that they are not the only one who likes to be seduced. Men adore as well! By now, they are expecting tempting seduction for some special days. Surprise him after work, in the morning, when you are watching TV. The more you seduce him, the more will come back to you.  Your husband will be happy and interested in you. Satisfied husband will please her wife intensively.

4.   Amazingly great oral satisfaction

Some women are thinking that good sex doesn’t need to include oral. No wonder their sex life fades. No man will openly say, but the truth is damn simple. Men like oral sex and they can’t get enough of it.  Having conservative wife who is  never in the mood isn’t interesting at all. After years of marriage missionary pose will be bored – for both of you! No matter how sexy you are. On the other hand, oral sex is universally attractive and mind-blowing for men.

Every time when you and your husband are having good sex, be sure that it’s not enough. To get your man interested in you, you need to have mind-blowing sex. Free yourself. Explore and get excited along with your husband. Horny man will please you over and over again. Don’t look at oral sex as something dirty – because it isn’t. It’s 100% proven tip on how to get your man interested in you. Free yourself and he’ll beg you for more.

Hugs,

Susan

Written by Susan Watson

Hey girl,

Once upon a time your husband and you shared a wild passion. After a while we were only sharing house responsibilities. But there is no reason for sexual attraction to fade. You just need to know how to keep your husband sexually addicted to you. How? The answer is quite simple. It’s not about good sex,  but mind-blowing sex. Again, how?

You think it hard? You have tried it all? Read these trusted ways how to keep husband sexually addicted to you forever.

1. Let Him Feel Like a King

All men, including your husband, have a need to feel powerful and strong. For men sex is the most important field where they need to score. Let him be powerful. Enjoy it! You’ll score as well, don’t worry. Sexually satisfied men will always come back for more. You’ll receive more attention, more care, pleasure and intimacy.

        2.  Look Always Better

Men are all visual. They picture us, they fantasy about us.  Try not to allow daily routine to take away your feminine side. Take care of your hair, your clothes.  Smell nice. Details matter. But girl, don’t do it as an exception (like looking good for his birthday or anniversary). Always try to look damn good. There is nothing more sexier then a woman who takes care of herself. This image will remind your husband over and over why he married you. Because you are hot! Because you keep the standard! Because you want to keep your husband happy in bed.

        3.  Take Initiative

Many women are making a terrible mistake believing that just lying in the bed is enough. No matter how sexy you are your husband won’t get turned on just looking at you. You need to be active. Don’t seduce him because you have to. Enjoy looking at your husband getting more and more excited. Feel what he likes. Trust your instinct and go beyond. Take one good move and he’ll return double. Smile at your husband.

Taking intiative will be good for you both. You may surprise yourself and learn something new. By exploring how to keep your husband sexually addicted to you, you invest in your marriage.

Don’t take an initiative because you want something back. Give yourself to your husband as an act of pure pleasure. Only then you’ll receive love, intimacy and sexually addicted husband.

Hugs,

Susan

back to Day 6

How to Prepare Yourself for New Sex Wave?

Written by Mary Robinson

Hey beautiful,

Do you girl, want to keep your husband or not? Do you plan to go on like this? Alone at the nights, hoping him to come and make you loved and desired again? Do you attend to keep on hoping or you’ll finally do something about it? Do you know how to prepare yourself for new sex wave?

Do you know that according to investigations 64% of people claimed unsatisfied about their sexual lives?

If you’ve came this far I assume you have a strong will to keep a husband interested in you. You are a brave, dedicated woman. You deserve all the happiness in the world. You deserve to be ”the one and only”. Keep him by your side and maintain the happiness that it’s still there, like Sleeping Beauty, but still existing, waiting for someone to revives it.

No matter how old are you, weather you’re in the twenties or seventies, you should have a decent sex life if you want to.

You should, you can and you are about to find out how.
Do you know how to prepare yourself for new sex wave?

First of all, let your sexuality shines. Susan and I were so unhappy, so reserved and distant to our husbands, said someone of two of us. Now we know that we maintained that kind of relationship with ourselves at in the first place. So rigid, so strict, unwilling to step into a great adventure of life that has so much to offer.

• Try new things
• When you fell like being open minded, be a nasty girl. When you’re not in the mood, don’t do something that you’re not comfortable with.
• Read and explore sex positions that you didn’t try before
• Whatever you do, do it because you want to and because you enjoy. Don’t fake a headache when you don’t feel like having sex. Rather have a good laugh together watching a comedy or go out for a nice walk.

Remember, you are beautiful. You are a good and dedicated wife. Make this night fabulous and do something you never did. Smile at him sensually and make your husband feel like a king. Put new sexy underwear on and let the miracle begins….

So, how to prepare yourself for new sex wave? From my personal experience I would recommend you to try these:

MAGIC MOUNTAIN

He sits, legs bent, leaning back on his hands and forearms. You do the same and then inch toward him until you connect. You’ll feel really connected looking at each other. Increase your stimulation by grinding your clitoris against his pelvis.

LEAP FROG

This is a modified doggy-style. Get on your hands and knees, then, keeping hips raised, rest your head and arms on the bed. Creates deeper penetration.

COWBOY

You lie on your back while he straddles you. He then gently inserts his penis through the tight opening created by your semi-closed legs. Tightness increases the intensity of the penetration.

Hugs,

Mary