Good Communication Will Make Your Husband Fall in Love with You Again
Written by Susan Watson
Let me tell you this straight. I have spent so many days being angry with my husband. The thing is, each time we had a fight, I wasn’t talking to him. The main problem was I was feeling really, really bad. This is not how it should be. It’s very simple. Maintain a good communication with your husband and just observe him falling in love with you again.It is possible and I’ll tell you how to do it.
Men are sometimes so annoying, and stubborn that they drive us crazy. There is a good way to deal with them. It’s called PATIENCE.
First of all, if you are thinking on “taking a few days to cool out”, going to your mom’s place, or to a small three days trip elsewhere, DON’T DO IT!
Listen to me girl. That is a DANGEROUS path! Nothing disappears without a trail! NOTHING! Although you’ll think that you are happy and your husband as well - be sure that you are SO WRONG!
Did you know that even 89% of couples who don’t communicate efficiently will loose love and affection for one another in just 5 years!!
I’ve summed up here 10 top reasons why you should communicate with your husband. These 10 basic MUSTS will make your fall in love with you again!
Saves Your Money
If you had a fight, it’s perfectly clear why he is coming back with 1001 rose and, yeah ,you’ll have sex that night. But face it, there is absolutely no doubt that poor communication costs!
If it’s just flowers, his bank account won’t suffer. On the other hand, if your husband’s “crime” is bigger, then fancy candies, many small gifts, jewelry perhaps, and even a trip, might be included.
Let’s be realistic: that trip will be far more expensive then the one you planned, because the poor guy had to think something fast – and last minute offers aren’t the smartest options. That’s for sure! These are just extra costs from husbands who said the “wrong thing or failed to say the “right thing.”
When you look at all these costly mistakes, you’ll realize that the majority of them are a result of poor communication between you two.
Have a trip because you and your husband wanted, not because someone did something wrong!
Increases Your Concentration and Efficiency
After huge fights with our husbands we are so distracted, that we can’t focus our thoughts on a daily work, even on a simple conversation with a friend. Somebody usually asks what is going on and are we OK. It’s because of our unresolved problem with HIM. Listening and talking effectively resolves the issue and liberates your mind.
Saves Your Time and Energy
I’m the first one who loved to put things under the carpet. And I’m the first one who got burned from unfinished fights with my husband! I didn’t want to believe that sooner or later an unresolved issue must be discussed. And that’s the whole truth, girl! When problems with husband appear – deal with them right away. You’ll save your time, and, believe me, it’s much easier to face it as soon as you can. This honest conversation will 100% keep you husband happy! Also, it will help him see something that he might have forgotten: the great woman he fell in love with. You are going to refresh his memory and make your man fall in love with you again.
It’s Excellent For Your Health
This is so TRUTH and so reachable! Good communication in marriage reduce stress! Instead of having two stresses (the one at work and the other at home), you have decreased at least 50% of your daily stresses, just by communicating. Eliminating that stress you two will have more time to enjoy in your love. Instead of arguing, let him love you, or, let’s say it clearly, let him discover how great you are and make him fall in love with you again.
Your husband is the first one you should talk to when you have any problem, isn’t he? Well, act like that.
Positive Comes After Positive
Every time you and your husband deal with a problem successfully, you’ll be more satisfied with each other. Step by step you will make a solid base of patience and confidence, that will help you resolving your future problems. You and your husband will be able to share more because you have a record of mutual success.
This will bring your self-confidence up (100 %, believe me)!
Have you ever tried to explain your thoughts or feelings to someone else and during the conversation you ended up in a different place from where you began? Putting your thoughts into words forces you to clarify them. Talking and listening also allows you to tune your ideas. Your husband will certainly appreciate to hear and understand what went wrong!
Stop The Vicious Circle Once For All
“Why won’t you talk to me?”
“How many time have I told you to go pick them from school today?”
“Don’t just walk away. Talk to me. Please!”
And then always comes “Where are you going now?”
Girl, let’s be honest. Isn’t this enough hard and exhausting? He leaves the house to have a drink with a buddy and you are stuck in home with dishes and ironing. That’s just not fair, right? Avoiding communications is so exhausting and stressful. Why wouldn’t you just behave like mature persons and talk?
Being silent won’t give you more control over the situation. If you choose silence, you’ll have a husband who will trust you less. Why? Because he doesn’t know what’s in your mind. That won’t make him more interested in you, believe me! Be calm and go talk to your husband. Tell him how you feel. Tell him what freaks you out. Don’t yell. Don’t scream. Don’t be rude to him. Act as a comprehensive wife who has her own opinion, her own needs, wishes and principles. Your husband will fall in love with you again watching you being determined and affectionate at the same time.
Good Communication Resolve Other Bad
All relationships are nourished by good communications! Having a harmonized marriage will 100% help you building better relationship with you kids, co-workers, neighbors and his family!
The minute you loose touch with your husband, you are in great danger of loosing so much in your life!
New Experience Will Enrich You
Let’s face the truth! The person you are married to is not the person you first met. But be honest with yourself again, girl . Neither you are the same!
Every day life, challenges, dreams and plans are changing you two as well. You are growing and so is your husband! It’s a 100% guarantee that if you work at communicating, you will discover new things about each other!
Be sure that you don’t know your husband just because you love him!
You are sitting with your neighbours, in lovely spring and out of the blue your husband mentions how that reminds him on time when he was a kid who spend most of the time watching anthills. What follows is a story of childhood excitement, parental fear, and lessons learned from the distant past! It might explain why your husband is so sensitive about some things! And it will give you insight into his world and soul. Be sure that good communication will keep your husband interested in you, as a lifelong partner!
There Is Nothing To Loose
You can loose much more with playing games then with honest talk! Come on, the two of you are not kids in high school anymore. You’re married! You and your husband went through a lot of things, so not talking with each other is a stupid and silly gamble. Girl, you have two choices: play game and ignore him for days praying that it will work or talk honestly and make your husband fall in love with you again.