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Time for Me
Written by Mary Robinson
Good to have you here. Congrats for making your first step. You have just said YES, to a good decision, YES to a game that you are about to win. Once you apply the “time for me” step, both you and your husband will be happier and you marriage will flourish.
I will show you how you can make a dramatic change in your relationship just by observing yourself.
Your wishes, interests and ideas are important. The more you have them, the better. “Time for me” will help you define them.
I’ll tell you something. My ex husband and I have been together for nine years. We were dating just for a couple of months before starting to live together. After a couple of years we started to suffer of misunderstanding. I was dedicated to my commercial representative work too much and I didn’t pay enough attention to him. I turned myself into person who made complains on everything instead being a good company to a loving person.
After meeting Susan and sharing my problems with her I realized that neither me, nor her did know how to keep a husband.
Instead of complaining, falling in depression or asking yourself what went wrong apply these “Time for me” steps.
Why am I telling this?
Well, because the problem was not in the fact that he was putting his dirty socks on the chair each day. The only problem was in my head. That’s why I lost him and didn’t get a chance to try to make him back. When I realized that, it was too late. He was gone. It was too late when I realized that it was me who was full of lacks.
The problem was nobody told me for that famous “Time for me”. Funny, but it was always there, in front of my eyes. I was blind.
I didn’t know who I was. I didn’t know what do I actually like, what do I enjoy in, who are my true friends, whose company I enjoy with… I was lonely and hundred percent dedicated to my job.
- Find some time just for yourself. Do it whenever you can. Whether it will be while washing the dishes, going to pick the kids from school, while preparing the meal, or whatever…Concentrate and ask yourself a simple question: WHO AM I? WHAT DO I WANT FROM LIFE? WHAT WOULD MAKE ME HAPPY?
- After answering these questions ask another one: DO I REALLY WANT TO KEEP MY HUSBAND? DO I REALLY WANT ME TO BE HAPPY? THESE TWO QUESTIONS ARE CONNECTED.
- If the answer is positive you already made a huge step forward. Remember, if there is a love nothing is impossible. Remember, also, that your husband is still here, so that means that you are still important to him, girl. So, fight for your love, fight to keep your husband.
- Remember, your husband will be happy to see a satisfied woman who knows how to take advantages from these “time for me” steps.
Let me tell you once again how good is to have you here, reading this. By considering these advices you have just made a firm base to your next steps.
Have a GREAT day and read “7 Days Guide To Keep You Husband” for DAY 2 by clicking here.